Just a bit shy of 6 months since I started this blog, and am having quite a lot of funs. The experiences of blogging do contribute greatly to my personal developments. I am ready to move on to work on other targets that I am pursu ing of, heheh. Yup, enuff talking from me here. I will close it here permanently. Adious Amigo. kekeke.
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Thursday, July 24, 2008
Heheh, enuff Talk Only Mah!
Just a bit shy of 6 months since I started this blog, and am having quite a lot of funs. The experiences of blogging do contribute greatly to my personal developments. I am ready to move on to work on other targets that I am pursu ing of, heheh. Yup, enuff talking from me here. I will close it here permanently. Adious Amigo. kekeke.
Sunday, July 6, 2008
Wednesday, July 2, 2008
TalkandShare Mah! Has a new and cool Banner
TalkandShare Mah! www.talkandsharemah.blogspot.com has a new banner, I think it is cool and much better looking than before. kekekeke! remember to check it out.
Monday, June 9, 2008
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Friday, June 6, 2008
Wednesday, May 14, 2008
Need some charge-up this morning?
Leadership in Three Simple Steps
Leadership is about supporting and building employee morale and productivity...To maintain and build high performance work relationships you must focus on three core ideas: reduce ambiguity, be fair and stay positive.
Reduce Ambiguity
People hate the unknown, the unclear and the unnecessarily complex... assumptions are rarely correct. Typically, they are negative and self-serving. All of this is time not spent working productively because you failed to go the extra few steps required to really reduce ambiguity.
...With great communication and clear performance goals you will go a long way towards reducing unnecessary employee ambiguity.
Be Fair
This does not mean treating people the same. You only want to treat people identically in terms of creating an environment where expectations are clear and opportunities are open to everyone...
One vital key to not only being fair, but being perceived as fair, is to allow people a voice in shaping decisions that affect them...
Stay Positive
Positive emotions (just like negative emotions) are infectious...
Next, realize that to be a leader is to be a cheerleader....
Author's Bio : Dr. Dewett
Dr. Dewett is a business professor, author, consultant and speaker specializing in leadership and organizational life... more at drdewett.com.
Leadership is about supporting and building employee morale and productivity...To maintain and build high performance work relationships you must focus on three core ideas: reduce ambiguity, be fair and stay positive.
Reduce Ambiguity
People hate the unknown, the unclear and the unnecessarily complex... assumptions are rarely correct. Typically, they are negative and self-serving. All of this is time not spent working productively because you failed to go the extra few steps required to really reduce ambiguity.
...With great communication and clear performance goals you will go a long way towards reducing unnecessary employee ambiguity.
Be Fair
This does not mean treating people the same. You only want to treat people identically in terms of creating an environment where expectations are clear and opportunities are open to everyone...
One vital key to not only being fair, but being perceived as fair, is to allow people a voice in shaping decisions that affect them...
Stay Positive
Positive emotions (just like negative emotions) are infectious...
Next, realize that to be a leader is to be a cheerleader....
Author's Bio : Dr. Dewett
Dr. Dewett is a business professor, author, consultant and speaker specializing in leadership and organizational life... more at drdewett.com.
Sunday, May 11, 2008
Wednesday, April 30, 2008
Why always last minute.. here is the fix.
Gosh! What a timely article, amid the rush of filing (or e-filing rather) our income tax.
I found this article is not only about motivation talk but also related to emotion control.
Hope it can benefit us all.
Procrastinate Procrastination - 6 Easy Steps
Author: Dan Ohler
http://ThinkinOutsideTheBarn.com
“I’m going to make those marketing calls. Yup, tomorrow I will.”
“Dang, there’s the alarm. I’ll hit the snooze button – just one more time.”
“I’m going to start an exercise program. I’ll look into it next week.”
“I’ll get that GST report done – one of these days.”
“I’d really like to tell her how I feel about what she said to me. But not now. Maybe there will be a good time later – maybe.”
“Let’s get together for a visit. I’ll call you one of these days.”
Do you allow yourself to get sucked-in to these thoughts and actions, or lack of action now and then? I do, or did, or won’t anymore.
The more I chose these putting-off thoughts and actions, the more immobilized I became. When I chose to do that, I felt inadequate, frustrated, unworthy, and then rushed or panicked. The next emotional “trip” was blame, guilt, or anger – maybe all three. My situation was because of somebody or something else – not my fault.
I don’t know about you, but those feelings don’t seem champion-like. Those are not feelings that I want to embrace.
If I could give you easy steps to procrastinate procrastination so you can feel energized, worthy, productive, happy, and successful, would it be of value to you? If so, read on.
Procrastination is proof that we can postpone our happiness, dreams, and success until another time. We hope and wish that something will magically happen, so our lives will finally be amazing and incredible. Procrastination is a pathetic excuse for not attempting, succeeding, learning, or growing. It’s a pathetic excuse for not using our potential NOW, for not living NOW. Yet many of us procrastinate on a regular basis.
The psychological payoffs for procrastination are immense. We:
- avoid doing things we perceive to be fearful or uncomfortable
- eliminate risk and avoid change
- can be critical of others and use their inadequacies as justification for our own inactivity
- blame others or the world for our circumstances and results
- win sympathy from others and feel sorry for ourselves
- waste our days, weeks, and years agonizing inside about things we didn’t do
- justify sloppiness or incompetent work because “I just didn’t have enough time”
- avoid success and the perceived responsibilities.
Procrastinating procrastination involves conscious awareness of our actions (or inactions) and making new conscious choices. There are only two choices.
1. Do something so it is “done.” Then you can fully experience the feelings of pride, joy, exhilaration, wonder, awe, and great learnings. These are in-the-moment NOW feelings. The outcome may not always be as you pictured it, however there is always a great lesson when we look for it.
2. Don’t do something, because it is not important now and is therefore “undone.” Accept this without any feelings of guilt, anxiety, or remorse.
Here are 6 easy steps to procrastinate procrastination. Do them, or procrastinate – your choice. Decide for yourself how good it feels.
** Note: this next part took me a few hours to write because I had things to do with each step.
1. Take 15 minutes ONLY and do one thing you really want to do; i.e. a walk, play with your child, bubble-bath, reflect on things for which you are grateful, read a really good book (like mine). Focus your attention only on your experience and the great feelings. You are an amazing human being!!
** Excuse me; I’m going outside for a run with my dog, Tip.
2. Do something that you have been putting off. Start now! You’ll find the task is not as bad as you perceived. Choose to enjoy the project and especially the feeling of accomplishment, or movement in a desired direction.
** By gosh, that feels good to complete that GST report.
3. Ask yourself, “What is the worst thing that could happen if I do this?” Usually, the perceived fears or challenges are insignificant compared to what you can gain.
** Although I was afraid to ask Carol about our conversation, I did. I learned I had misunderstood. She was not upset at me. She was frustrated because of her own procrastination. She’s doing something about it now, just as I’ve done.
4. If you find yourself being critical, blaming, or sympathetic of others, ask yourself, “Would I want others to do this to me?”
** I will not allow my critical thoughts about him to destroy our working relationship. I am going to see him, now, to talk about this head-to-head and heart-to-heart. He’s a great leader, a wonderful man, and thank goodness he’s not a copy of me. I will clearly set my boundaries in regard to what I am willing to do.
5. Evaluate your commitments. Are you stupendously prepared? Have you invested the time to do the job in an exceptional way, fully utilizing your abilities and talents?
** I get to practice that presentation one more time. Now I know I’m ready!
6. Gauge your self-talk. Ensure it is positive and supportive. “I should do this.” “I must do that.” These debilitating mental conversations are an attack on your self-fullness. Be proactive rather than reactive.
** I will visit my neighbour this afternoon. I’ll easily finish this article today. Today is a fantastically productive day for me.
Will any or all of these steps work for you?
If you want to be a champion, take ownership of your life and act now – not tomorrow, NOW! You’ll like how it feels.
When you act in ways that allow you to feel really good, you’ll find you can be, do, or have anything you want. It’s the Law of Attraction – and it works.
I found this article is not only about motivation talk but also related to emotion control.
Hope it can benefit us all.
Procrastinate Procrastination - 6 Easy Steps
Author: Dan Ohler
http://ThinkinOutsideTheBarn.com
“I’m going to make those marketing calls. Yup, tomorrow I will.”
“Dang, there’s the alarm. I’ll hit the snooze button – just one more time.”
“I’m going to start an exercise program. I’ll look into it next week.”
“I’ll get that GST report done – one of these days.”
“I’d really like to tell her how I feel about what she said to me. But not now. Maybe there will be a good time later – maybe.”
“Let’s get together for a visit. I’ll call you one of these days.”
Do you allow yourself to get sucked-in to these thoughts and actions, or lack of action now and then? I do, or did, or won’t anymore.
The more I chose these putting-off thoughts and actions, the more immobilized I became. When I chose to do that, I felt inadequate, frustrated, unworthy, and then rushed or panicked. The next emotional “trip” was blame, guilt, or anger – maybe all three. My situation was because of somebody or something else – not my fault.
I don’t know about you, but those feelings don’t seem champion-like. Those are not feelings that I want to embrace.
If I could give you easy steps to procrastinate procrastination so you can feel energized, worthy, productive, happy, and successful, would it be of value to you? If so, read on.
Procrastination is proof that we can postpone our happiness, dreams, and success until another time. We hope and wish that something will magically happen, so our lives will finally be amazing and incredible. Procrastination is a pathetic excuse for not attempting, succeeding, learning, or growing. It’s a pathetic excuse for not using our potential NOW, for not living NOW. Yet many of us procrastinate on a regular basis.
The psychological payoffs for procrastination are immense. We:
- avoid doing things we perceive to be fearful or uncomfortable
- eliminate risk and avoid change
- can be critical of others and use their inadequacies as justification for our own inactivity
- blame others or the world for our circumstances and results
- win sympathy from others and feel sorry for ourselves
- waste our days, weeks, and years agonizing inside about things we didn’t do
- justify sloppiness or incompetent work because “I just didn’t have enough time”
- avoid success and the perceived responsibilities.
Procrastinating procrastination involves conscious awareness of our actions (or inactions) and making new conscious choices. There are only two choices.
1. Do something so it is “done.” Then you can fully experience the feelings of pride, joy, exhilaration, wonder, awe, and great learnings. These are in-the-moment NOW feelings. The outcome may not always be as you pictured it, however there is always a great lesson when we look for it.
2. Don’t do something, because it is not important now and is therefore “undone.” Accept this without any feelings of guilt, anxiety, or remorse.
Here are 6 easy steps to procrastinate procrastination. Do them, or procrastinate – your choice. Decide for yourself how good it feels.
** Note: this next part took me a few hours to write because I had things to do with each step.
1. Take 15 minutes ONLY and do one thing you really want to do; i.e. a walk, play with your child, bubble-bath, reflect on things for which you are grateful, read a really good book (like mine). Focus your attention only on your experience and the great feelings. You are an amazing human being!!
** Excuse me; I’m going outside for a run with my dog, Tip.
2. Do something that you have been putting off. Start now! You’ll find the task is not as bad as you perceived. Choose to enjoy the project and especially the feeling of accomplishment, or movement in a desired direction.
** By gosh, that feels good to complete that GST report.
3. Ask yourself, “What is the worst thing that could happen if I do this?” Usually, the perceived fears or challenges are insignificant compared to what you can gain.
** Although I was afraid to ask Carol about our conversation, I did. I learned I had misunderstood. She was not upset at me. She was frustrated because of her own procrastination. She’s doing something about it now, just as I’ve done.
4. If you find yourself being critical, blaming, or sympathetic of others, ask yourself, “Would I want others to do this to me?”
** I will not allow my critical thoughts about him to destroy our working relationship. I am going to see him, now, to talk about this head-to-head and heart-to-heart. He’s a great leader, a wonderful man, and thank goodness he’s not a copy of me. I will clearly set my boundaries in regard to what I am willing to do.
5. Evaluate your commitments. Are you stupendously prepared? Have you invested the time to do the job in an exceptional way, fully utilizing your abilities and talents?
** I get to practice that presentation one more time. Now I know I’m ready!
6. Gauge your self-talk. Ensure it is positive and supportive. “I should do this.” “I must do that.” These debilitating mental conversations are an attack on your self-fullness. Be proactive rather than reactive.
** I will visit my neighbour this afternoon. I’ll easily finish this article today. Today is a fantastically productive day for me.
Will any or all of these steps work for you?
If you want to be a champion, take ownership of your life and act now – not tomorrow, NOW! You’ll like how it feels.
When you act in ways that allow you to feel really good, you’ll find you can be, do, or have anything you want. It’s the Law of Attraction – and it works.
Friday, March 21, 2008
Some reliefs
Nothing personal, I just want to have a cheaper cup of milo, cheaper bowl of yong taufu + noddles. :D
Saturday, March 1, 2008
Added Custom Made Market Update Table
Heh heh, just added a Market Update Table. My first attempt to play around with Html and custom made my market update table (linked to bloomberg). Hope it work next week. Kekekek.
Thursday, February 28, 2008
Friday, February 22, 2008
Good Site to Recommend : Digital Photography Review
If you are a pro or semi-pro photographer, probably you have already figured out the site that I am going to introduce.
This site provides excellent non-bias reviews. If you are shopping for a new digital camera, I would highly recommend you to check out this site for its review before you do anything.
http://www.dpreview.com/
Enjoy!
This site provides excellent non-bias reviews. If you are shopping for a new digital camera, I would highly recommend you to check out this site for its review before you do anything.
http://www.dpreview.com/
Enjoy!
Thursday, February 21, 2008
You think TA is mysterious, try this... wahahaha
You think TA is mysterious, try this... wahahaha (Seriously I hope this doesn't offend anyone here..)
The Star Online News
Nation
Thursday February 21, 2008
Tua Pek Kong predicts sluggish economy from Feb to June
PENANG: The country’s economy will be slightly slower than the previous year, according to the predictions of Tua Pek Kong or God of Prosperity.
The deity had predicted during the annual Chneah Hoay (flame-watching) ceremony here at the Hai Choo Soo (Sea Pearl) Temple in Tanjung Tokong that the country’s economy would be slow during the first four months of the lunar year (Feb 7 to June 3).
However, it is expected to pick up during the second third (June 4 to Sept 28).
The ceremony on the eve of Chap Goh Meh last night was the 118th Chneah Hoay at the temple.
The turnout was, unexpectedly, lower than in previous years but there were still hundreds, mostly businessmen, thronging the seafront temple to witness the ceremony.
It is believed that the deity could foretell the country's economy for the Chinese lunar year, through the flames from some 60 burning joss sticks.
The prediction is based on the height and intensity of the flames, and the speed with which the embers in the deity's urn flare up.
The embers were fanned in three stages – once each for every four months of the lunar year.
The ceremony, which lasted about 15 minutes, began at 11.55pm.
Lights, candles and oil lamps were put off to enable the Poh Hock Seah Temple committee members to scrutinise the flames for prediction.
Poh Hock Seah Temple president Datuk Lim Chooi Beng said embers from the burning joss sticks ignited after about nine minutes of the first fanning, signifying that the economy was slow in taking off.
“The second fanning took about two minutes while the last was only a minute, showing that the economy will be improving from mid-year onwards,” he said.
Advising the public to not panic, he said Chneah Hoay is only a religious ritual and the results merely a prediction.
The Star Online News
Nation
Thursday February 21, 2008
Tua Pek Kong predicts sluggish economy from Feb to June
PENANG: The country’s economy will be slightly slower than the previous year, according to the predictions of Tua Pek Kong or God of Prosperity.
The deity had predicted during the annual Chneah Hoay (flame-watching) ceremony here at the Hai Choo Soo (Sea Pearl) Temple in Tanjung Tokong that the country’s economy would be slow during the first four months of the lunar year (Feb 7 to June 3).
However, it is expected to pick up during the second third (June 4 to Sept 28).
The ceremony on the eve of Chap Goh Meh last night was the 118th Chneah Hoay at the temple.
The turnout was, unexpectedly, lower than in previous years but there were still hundreds, mostly businessmen, thronging the seafront temple to witness the ceremony.
It is believed that the deity could foretell the country's economy for the Chinese lunar year, through the flames from some 60 burning joss sticks.
The prediction is based on the height and intensity of the flames, and the speed with which the embers in the deity's urn flare up.
The embers were fanned in three stages – once each for every four months of the lunar year.
The ceremony, which lasted about 15 minutes, began at 11.55pm.
Lights, candles and oil lamps were put off to enable the Poh Hock Seah Temple committee members to scrutinise the flames for prediction.
Poh Hock Seah Temple president Datuk Lim Chooi Beng said embers from the burning joss sticks ignited after about nine minutes of the first fanning, signifying that the economy was slow in taking off.
“The second fanning took about two minutes while the last was only a minute, showing that the economy will be improving from mid-year onwards,” he said.
Advising the public to not panic, he said Chneah Hoay is only a religious ritual and the results merely a prediction.
Tuesday, February 19, 2008
Blu-ray set to be DVD standard after Toshiba white flag
Sony's Blu-ray looks set to become the standard for high-definition DVDs after Toshiba signalled Monday that it may give up in a long-running format battle, to the relief of investors.
Japan's Toshiba conceded defeat Tuesday to rival Sony in a long-running DVD format war, ending consumer confusion but leaving about one million people with expensive machines doomed to become obsolete.
Japan's Toshiba conceded defeat Tuesday to rival Sony in a long-running DVD format war, ending consumer confusion but leaving about one million people with expensive machines doomed to become obsolete.
Friday, February 15, 2008
Chicken First or Egg first?
The idea of upgrading shoutbox has been tickling me. Like a logic problem of chicken and egg, having upgraded shoutbox first to attract viewer or upgrade shoutbox after I have significant viewers? I think the answer is now obvious for my case, current free version of shoutbox is still under-utilized, no urgency to upgrade it yet.. kekeke.
Saturday, February 9, 2008
About the photos, I have a confession to make... I saw them already.
Whose photos? Edison's lah! Early this year I thought CSL video was the most scandalous drama of the year 2008, but I was wrong. Edison's photos win it hand down (even on Lingam's case lah)
This is my confession, I thought I could start this CNY clean, but I am too weak to resist the temptations, so I googled around for the pic.. Oh, Mamamia! I couldn't believe my eyes, bootylicious Cecilia spreading eagle, Gillian (Ah Qiu) sucking up!! Schwing..
Then I remembered a conversation with one of the shout box visitor "WB2" the other day, who made these comments:
This is my confession, I thought I could start this CNY clean, but I am too weak to resist the temptations, so I googled around for the pic.. Oh, Mamamia! I couldn't believe my eyes, bootylicious Cecilia spreading eagle, Gillian (Ah Qiu) sucking up!! Schwing..
Then I remembered a conversation with one of the shout box visitor "WB2" the other day, who made these comments:
- WB2
everything is faked...either intentionally..or unintentially
- Details
- 09:44 Feb 6, 2008
- #
- WB2
actually I hv change my perception on the whole world... not only about sex workers..
Wednesday, February 6, 2008
Happy Chinese New Year / Happy Holidays
Dear Readers,
I wish you a golden year of mouse.
Sincerely,
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